1、Fearlessly Work a Room 大胆出动
Dogs are strangers to one another, but they instantly meet and greet those around them. They know how to fearlessly work a room. Try to be open and free-spirited like a golden retriever. Just walk up, say hi, and introduce yourself to anyone who will listen. You don’t have to lick their faces.
2、Be Friendly and Playful 让自己友好而有趣
Dogs, after a few initial sniffs, begin to play together, chasing one another, and rolling over in the dirt. Don’t hang back waiting for other people to make the first move. Once you sense there is some common ground and you’re not likely to get your head bitten off, engage. Invite them for golf or a ball game. Get in some social activity.
3、Work That Body 巧用肢体
Dogs are excellent at using body language to convey a point. Body language is as much about seeing what’s going on with others as it is about projecting yourself. That’s what makes dogs so good at getting our attention and avoiding conflict. We rely so often on our words to communicate with others, but make sure to give thought to your body movements, your eye contact, your appearance and your vibe.
4、Make ’em Laugh 逗别人笑
Dogs win us over with humor because they make us laugh at the things they do, the expressions they display and the way their tongues hang out. No need to take yourself so seriously. Use humor to your advantage.
5、Share a Meal 分享大餐
Dogs bond with people over food. They will be your best friend if you engage them with a treat. You can’t necessarily snack your way into friendships, but buying someone a drink or bonding over a meal is a great way to develop a relationship.
6、Be Expressive 要善于表现
Dogs can be verbally expressive, even without words. They’ll bark, whimper, growl and yawn. They don’t hide anything–they make their feelings and needs known. Try the same thing. Let others know exactly how you feel and you may just get some useful and honest feedback.
7、Show Some Enthusiasm 表现出激情
Dogs expend a lot of energy in running and jumping all over the place. They are very active and lively. Enthusiastically share your passion for life and people when communicating. Your joyfulness may actually become infectious.